One Step (½ mile) Forward

Sunday, March 4, 2018

Today was another beautiful day as predicted yesterday. Wow! They got it right two days in a row. And it was good. Chilly morning, 39 again, and didn’t seem quite as warm as yesterday this afternoon. It was a beautiful day to get our walking in again. We got about 5 miles today. Getting outside exercising is more than good for our heart. It is really good for our spirit. Last week we climbed steps in the hospital but that was about it. It was really good to get back outside. Very thankful for today.

Also thankful for our worship service and Sunday school class at Lester Memorial UMC today. Both were really good and since it was the first Sunday of the month we celebrated Holy Communion. Always a special time.

After Sunday school we returned to the rehab facility to visit with Helen. Donna and Barry were there as well. Helen seemed to be doing well. She was smiling and laughing and really appreciated Donna’s and Barry’s visit. We left Helen eating lunch with some of her new friends in the dining room. She makes friends easily and we hope she will end up enjoying her time at rehab. Therapy will start tomorrow so we will see how things go then. She did really well with therapy at the hospital and we hope that continues. So thankful that we have family and friends who will continue to visit and encourage her daily in our absence.

Staged for the next tripOther than a little nap and our walking, we spent the afternoon doing our final packing. We are now one step and ½ mile closer to Baton Rouge. After our final loading, we moved Fred to the end of our driveway, out to Aunt Helen’s house for a dry camping night. We decided it would be nice to just be able to get in Fred and head out after we finish some business for Aunt Jean and meet with the team at rehab to complete all of Helen’s paperwork. We are hoping it will be shortly after lunch but whenever it is, we will be ready to roll.

On The Blog Again

Saturday, March 3, 2018

The tulip magnolia in our back yard is still in full bloomToday was another beautiful sunny spring day in north Alabama. It has rained a lot this past week, the gray skies making our moods even gloomier. The low last night was a chilly 39 degrees but with the sunshine it warmed up quickly today. There was some scattered frost around but none at our house so no damage to plants yet. Our tulip magnolia still looks great. It will be in the 30s again tonight but tomorrow is supposed to be another beautiful day.

Sorry we left you hanging all week. It was a very difficult week for us on all sorts of levels. Aunt Helen has been such an independent lady all her life and she is not happy about needing assistance since she has basically loss the use of her right arm for 4-6 weeks and possibly 8-10 weeks while her clavicle fracture heals. She actually has required minimal pain medications, but the dementia just makes everything so difficult. She forgets she is not supposed to be moving the arm and that she must not take the splint off. Somehow she manages to get out of it if you look away for just a second. She forgets her clavicle is broken. She forgets where she is and on and on. She frequently is pitiful, homesick, and scared. So very sad. We were told by two doctors that she must go to a skilled nursing facility for rehab instead of back home. We spent every day this week at the hospital with her or visiting rehab facilities. By the time we got home in the evenings we were just to tired to prepare a blog post. Dealing with the hospital and insurance company all week was exhausting.

We were able to finally get Helen transferred to a rehab facility in Oneonta, 15 minutes from our house, last night. We were discharged at 5:15 just in time for the worst of the rush hour traffic. This center seems to be a good fit for Helen and we are very hopeful all will be okay. She, of course, only wants to go home NOW. Very difficult decisions lie ahead. We need your prayers for wisdom and courage.

The good news is that Helen had some good times today. She enjoyed Bible study this morning and really had a good time at a gospel singing this afternoon. She also got to meet the facility cat, Lucy. Lucy enjoyed Helen’s petting. Helen also seemed to enjoyed meeting the other people at rehab. Praying good times continue for her.

Lucy, boss at the rehab facility
Lucy – the boss at the rehab facility

Good news for us is that it appears we are going to be able to get back to the mission work God has called us to with the help of some cousins and Helen’s church family that have volunteered to help care for her while we are gone. We know we are the hands and feet of God in all that we do, including helping care for Helen, but we also know we are called to be helping the victims of flooding last year in Baton Rouge. When all of Gods people answer their call all of God’s work gets done. Hopefully, by the middle of the week we will be in Baton Rouge preparing for the start of the NOMADS disaster rebuilding project there. But as always, we will remain flexible. Also hopefully, we will now be back to daily blogging and will soon have some more interesting and uplifting items and pictures to share with you.

Remember, we all need to be in prayer for our worship services tomorrow and that God prepare our hearts to receive the message He has for us. Hope you had a great week and a restful and enjoyable weekend.

Semper Gumby Yet Again

Saturday, February 24, 2018

Our plan for today was to get Fred ready to move to Tuscaloosa to work on some estate business there next week. We had almost finished and were about to move the coach out to the end of the driveway before the rains arrived.

Remember the medical alarm we installed for Aunt Helen yesterday? Well, about 1:00 pm we got a call from the alarm company that the alarm had been activated and EMS notified. We jumped in the car and headed that way thinking it was another accidental activation. (We had several of those with her old medical alarm.) We arrived at the same time the first member of the Pine Mountain Volunteer Fire and EMS pulled up on the scene. When we entered the house Anne immediately saw that it was real. Aunt Helen was in the kitchen floor holding her right shoulder.

She has a broken clavicle.

Jump forward seven hours and we are in her room in the hospital where she will be for a couple of days for evalution. After that, we will see.

Please pray for Aunt Helen. And us.

More Springing

Friday, February 23, 2018

Today was another beautiful spring day. High temperature was 80. Don’t know if this was another record but it was nice. Everything is starting to bloom now. The tulip poplar that had only 2 blooms 2 days ago is approaching full bloom today. Beautiful. Now we are starting to think about fresh local strawberries. It won’t be long.

Today we installed a new medical alarm at Helen’s. We are trying to do everything we can to make her environment as safe as possible so she now has a fall detection pendant/medical alert button. She is suppose to wear it all the time, especially at night. We told her to never, ever take it off. We don’t want her to fall and be in the floor all night.

grilling smoked sausageWe took advantage of the beautiful day to get the grill out.  We like to keep some grilled smoked sausage in the freezer to add to omelets and have with biscuits and the freezer was empty.  Now it is restocked with three pounds.  Since we had the grill out anyway, we also decided to have some steaks, potatoes and salad.  Good meal.  Max really knows how to grill a steak.  Of course we have no pictures of the steak.  It was eaten as soon as it was done.

We also began reloading FRED today. We never really unloaded everything but today we started sorting and taking the sweatshirts back inside and bring out more short sleeved shirts for Baton Rouge. We plan to take Fred to Tuscaloosa Sunday and leave him there until we head to Baron Rouge in about 10 days so we have to get everything loaded tomorrow. It will be a busy day. We were able to get our 4 miles in again this afternoon. We are getting back in better shape. Hope you all have a great weekend.